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Sugar Baby The Most Accurate Guide On Sugar Baby Dating
Sugar Baby The Most Accurate Guide On Sugar Baby Dating
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Sugar Baby The Most Accurate Guide On Sugar Baby Dating

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Bella Stewart
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Today, nearly all people heard about sugar dating, but there's still a big grey area around it. Some confuse it with sex work, some—with vanilla dating, and only the people who've already become part of this world know all the answers.

We're going to share all of these answers in this guide—you'll find here all the definitions, answers to the most frequently asked questions, tips on how to get started, and the lists of the best sugar daddy sites and sugar baby apps where most young women and men and their successful benefactors usually meet each other.

Every sugar daddy, sugar baby, or sugar mama who wants to start a sugar relationship quickly or at least try it, needs a sugar dating site to get started, and we've already chosen the 7 most popular platforms for you.

  1. SecretBenefits — 9.9⭐ 
  2. AshleyMadison — 9.7⭐
  3. SugarDaddy.com — 9.6⭐
  4. SugarDaddyMeet — 9.6⭐
  5. LuxuryDate — 9.5⭐
  6. WhatsYourPrice — 9.5⭐
  7. SugarBook — 9.3⭐
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There are hundreds of sugar daddy sites, but SecretBenefits is now the most popular one. What attracts tens of millions of people and makes them sign up? 

First, it's the safety reasons—most profiles are verified and detailed. According to the policy of the company, those who are not ready to provide their real photos simply will not be able to sign up. Second, there are the reasonable prices—Secret Benefits isn't among the affordable dating platforms, but it's also not a high-end sugar dating website. Finally, there are all the features that a good sugar daddy site must have, from messaging to restricting access to private photos.

Ashley Madison—Best sugar daddy site for people looking for sugar affairs

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Ashley Madison is a bit different from most other sugar daddy dating sites. It will hardly work for people looking for long-term relationships but will be perfect for those who look for more privacy and/or want to have an extramarital affair. All adult users can join for free and get access to plenty of free features, including search and creating public or private members. All women can also send messages for free (including sugar mommas), but male users need to buy credits to initiate conversation. There are also the Priority messages that cost extra credit but can help ensure a member will definitely notice your message in their inbox.

SugarDaddy.com—Safe and modern sugar baby website

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As the name of the SugarDaddy.com suggests, it's one of the platforms created only for those people who are interested in a sugar dating relationship, and no one but them. It's a relatively new platform, and though it doesn't have as many members as Secret Benefits and some other sites on our list, it becomes increasingly popular mostly due to its safety system and policy. A member can't join the platform without providing detailed information and at least a few real photos that will be checked manually—the great news for those who want to find a sugar baby or a sugar daddy online without having to distinguish fake profiles and catfishes from real members.

SugarDaddyMeet—One of the best sugar daddy websites for the wealthiest people only

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Even the best sugar baby websites accept most adult users who fill in the registration form, but SugarDaddyMeet is different. According to its policy, only residents of the twenty most developed countries can join the community, which allows ensuring that benefactors will be able to meet the expectations of legit SBs. Unlike most other sugar dating websites, SugarDaddyMeet lets users create albums, browse profiles, use search (basic for standard members and advanced for premium users), and send messages. Also, the members of SDM can comment on other users' photos and profiles.

LuxuryDate—One of the sugar baby sites with a lot of verified sugar daddies & sugar babies

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Luxury Date is an excellent place to meet potential sugar babies or sugar daddies, as most of the profiles on the platform are verified. It's also a modern dating service with a clean design and many useful features both for new and experienced dating site users. In particular, all members can join the community for free, use the video verification feature, add public photos and make part of them or all of them private, look for new sugar arrangements using the advanced search feature, and of course, send messages. This isn’t a very popular dating website but considering the rapid growth of its database, it will be able to compete with the largest sugar baby platforms pretty soon.

WhatsYourPrice—Sugar daddy dating site with the bidding system

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Even the best sugar daddy sites cannot provide what WhatsYourPrice can offer. It seems like a regular sugar baby app until you learn more about its bidding system. Sugar daddies can browse profiles and send messages and if they like someone, they can place a bid on a date, and if it's accepted, a SB gets paid, and a SD gets a date. The system is fair because if potential partners don't meet, a sugar daddy gets a full refund.

Note please that messaging is unlocked only after a user adds and verifies its photos, so it's also one of the safest dating sites, too.

SugarBook—Best sugar daddy site for college students

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On Sugar Book, everyone can find a perfect match—the sugar daddy website works for all, including sugar daddies, male and female sugar babies, and sugar mamas. The team also considers the fact that not all sugar babies can pay for premium plans—messaging is completely free for all SBs who can prove they're currently studying at college.

As for the features, there are a lot of them, and some are more than just useful for those who value privacy. In particular, members can use the Private mode and restrict access to some photos. Standard features like favorites, messaging, and search are available too. 

Profiles are manually moderated, so the users can be sure that they have accounts on a safe sugar daddy website.

  1. AshleyMadison9.7
  2. Sudy Dating App8.8
  3. LuxuryApp8.7

Ashley Madison—Best sugar daddy app for casual dating

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AshleyMadison is on our list of best sugar daddy dating sites, but it also deserves to be called the best sugar dating app—the company launched the official app years ago, and it's available both for iOS and Android users. It works exactly the same. All the features including Secret Albums and Priority messaging can be used on mobile, and the costs aren't higher than the costs of credits for those who prefer to use the desktop version of the platform.

Sudy Dating App—One of the best classy sugar baby apps

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If you're looking for as many sugar dates as possible and want to use a classy modern sugar daddy app, Sudy is the right option for you. This is one of the oldest existing apps, which, however, accepts only SDs and SBs—there are the other versions of the app for gay and lesbian members seeking sugar arrangements. SBs can verify their accounts and be rewarded with free unlimited messaging—the great news for ladies on a budget. All members can also post Moments and let others comment on them, so those who like the interface and functionality of Instagram will love this best sugar daddy app, too.

Luxy App—Best sugar baby app for millionaires

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If you're looking for a place where you can find a sugar daddy who'll pay the best monthly allowance or the hottest and most well-educated SD, Luxy App will be the best sugar daddy app for you. A man won't be able to join the community if he fails to prove he earns half a million dollars per month, and that's not all. Everyone who wants to sign up needs to wait until the current members vote for or against them—if you have 50% votes and more, you'll become a Luxy member. So, this is an exclusive app for those who are interested only in the best sugar arrangements and are ready to make more efforts to get them than on regular sugar dating platforms.

Common questions about Sugar Baby dating

Now you have the websites to choose from and try; now we would like to provide you with the most important answers to the main sugar dating questions. You will find them below; they can help understand how sugar dating actually works both for benefactors and young women and men who date them.

What is a Sugar Baby?

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A sugar baby is a young woman or a young man who doesn't want to start a traditional 'vanilla' relationship but wants to have a mutually beneficial arrangement, where dating will be financially compensated by another party—a sugar daddy or a sugar momma. Note that sugar daddy relationships aren't sex work, and sugar babies aren't providing sex favors. Though usually intimacy is involved, they're rather girlfriends and boyfriends who get paid for their partners for the time they spend together, including dates, walks, chatting, and companionship at large. There are different types of sugar babies, and you can learn everything about them from this guide on SBs.

What does Online Sugar Baby mean?

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Speaking of types, there are sugar babies who don't meet their sugar daddies in real life. This is rare because most sugar daddies still want to actually date a sugar baby, but it happens. Some sugar babies focus not on real-life companionship and not on real-life intimacy but on online conversation and sometimes, also have virtual sexual activities. Basically, they are online girlfriends for their sugar daddies who, for some reason, aren't looking for "real dating" (some online sugar daddies are married, some are interested in communication more than in sex, etc.)

What does Male Sugar Baby mean?

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The only thing that distinguishes a male sugar baby from a female sugar baby is gender. Gay sugar dating and sugar momma dating are almost as common as straight sugar dating—if you choose one of the best sugar daddy sites or an even random sugar dating site, you'll find a lot of guys seeking mutually beneficial arrangements with older successful gay men or cougars. A male sugar baby who dates cougars is often called a sugar cub, while a male sugar baby who dates men is usually called a gay sugar baby.

Who is a Sugar Daddy?

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A sugar daddy is a financially successful man who wants to start a relationship with a younger (in most cases) attractive lady or a gentleman and is ready to compensate them for their time. It's important to emphasize that a man who pays for sexual favors isn't a sugar daddy. Sugar daddies looking not just for sex but also for companionship, romance, and intimacy. It's almost like traditional dating but without deep commitment and some of the negative features that sometimes come with a regular relationship, like jealousy and control, and of course, it's always compensated. 

If you’d like to know more information on sugar daddies, their characteristics, age, and goals can be found here, in an in-depth sugar daddy guide.

What is Mutually Beneficial Arrangement?

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A mutually beneficial arrangement is an arrangement between a sugar baby and a sugar daddy (or a sugar momma) that considers the expectations and preferences of both partners and is advantageous for both, too. In other words, it defines the terms and conditions of sugar relationships, so it can be called a deal between a sugar baby and a sugar daddy, and like business deals, it usually covers such important things as frequency of dates, intimacy, amount of a monthly allowance, or a PPM rate, things parties are into and things they aren't into.

Note that it's rarely a written document—in the vast majority of cases, a sugar baby and a sugar daddy just discuss all the terms of the mutually beneficial arrangements before they actually start dating.

Main SB/SD relationship rules

The main and short rules of sugar relationships are as follows:

  • Though partners have a great time together and sometimes develop authentic feelings, in particular, friendship, sugar dating isn't about falling in love
  • Both sugar babies and sugar daddies must be 100% open and honest about what they expect from a relationship and discuss it with a potential partner
  • A sugar baby is the one who gives positive emotions, there's no room for jealousy or control
  • A sugar daddy, in turn, must compensate sugar baby for her time and never delay/fail to send payments
  • Both partners should always follow specific rules of their own sugar arrangement

These are just the essential rules, basics, that every sugar daddy and a sugar baby should know. We would recommend learning more details: you can find the specific tips collected by our experts in this guide.

Main sugar baby tips for beginners

Before you join one of the best sugar dating sites, take a look at these tips—they'll help you to get started, avoid common mistakes and find a partner in the shortest time possible.

How to become a Sugar Baby?

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First of all, you should think carefully before you start your sugar baby career. Are you sure it's for you? Do you have realistic expectations? If you ask yourself questions, give honest answers, and if you feel or know sugar relationships will make you happy, you can move on to the following steps:

  1. Take care of your outfits and look for dates, if necessary. Your appearance is what sugar daddies notice first.
  2. Think about the type of sugar relationship carefully. Would you like to have a traditional sugar relationship, what are you into, and what are the taboos?
  3. Choose the type of payment and learn more about the prices to set a reasonable cost.
  4. Choose one of the good sugar daddy sites and get started.

If you want to have the full image of the sugar baby's life, this full guide on how to become a sugar baby will provide you with more information and useful advice.

How to find a sugar daddy?

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Let us simply give you the step-by-step instruction for beginners here:

  1. Find a good sugar dating site where you can easily find many sugar daddies nearby.
  2. Create a good profile, add your best photos and describe what you expect from your partner and a relationship with him in detail, and also mention what you can give.
  3. Start sending and responding to messages, reaching sugar daddies that meet your criteria (of course, if you meet their criteria, too).
  4. Chat online, get to know a sugar daddy a bit better, and go on a date (before you meet in real life, briefly discuss the preferred conditions of the sugar arrangement you'd like to have).
  5. Start dating a sugar daddy or keep meeting other sugar daddies until you find a perfect partner.

We have collected more tips and deeper insight here, in the guide on how to find a sugar daddy.

Sugar Baby profile examples

It's hard to overestimate the importance of a sugar baby profile (note please that a sugar daddy needs a good profile, too, and generally speaking, all the rules of creating good sugar baby profiles work for them as well). No matter how good a sugar daddy dating site is, a member just won't succeed with a low-effort page. Basically, there are a few most important elements:

  • The username—should be catchy but not weird or somehow related to sex
  • The headline—should contain the most important information
  • Bio—should contain way more detailed information on what a member is looking for on a sugar daddy site and what they can offer
  • Photos—should be high-quality, members need to upload at least 5 to make a profile work

If you want to have a look at the screenshots and examples of legit sugar baby profiles, you can find them in this guide.

Tips on creating a good sugar profile

We mentioned the basic rules, but we also have some more effective tips to make a profile work on any sugar daddy site:

  • Focus on what you can offer more than on what you want to get.
  • Avoid bragging and mentioning that you're the "most expensive", "the hottest", "the richest daddy in the city", that you "can blow one's mind", etc.
  • Add details to help your potential partners start a conversation with you, mention your interests, hobbies, favorite places, etc.
  • Don't sound needy and desperate to find a partner.

As you can see, creating a good sugar profile may seem the easiest task ever but there are pretty many things to consider, especially if you're really motivated to make a good impression on a sugar daddy or a sugar baby who browses your personal page.

First conversation examples

sugar baby dating

First conversations on sugar daddy websites are similar to regular conversations on platforms like Tinder. Sugar babies and sugar daddies don't usually start with discussing allowances and talking about the exclusiveness of their potential relationship. Most of them ask regular questions about hobbies, locations, occupations, interests, values, etc. Then, if everything goes well, a sugar daddy and a sugar baby can start discussing their relationship goals and move on to more specific things like an allowance.

There are specific examples of questions to ask a sugar daddy, so if you experience any difficulty with starting a conversation, take a look at them (and most of them work for sugar daddies, too).

How to ask and get money from sugar daddy?

First of all, all sugar babies should remind themselves that it's a completely normal thing. Moreover, it's an essential part of sugar dating. Here are some tips that can help a beginner sugar baby start her first conversation about money:

  • Get to know each other better first.
  • Try to relax and remember—all sugar babies discuss it, and sugar daddies are actually ready for such questions.
  • Ask related questions first, particularly about what he expects from a sugar relationship. Maybe, he'll be the one who will talk about the payment first.
  • Sound clear and honest, and again remind yourself that it's your right to get paid as a sugar baby.

What's the average Sugar Baby allowance?

First of all, we should emphasize that it varies greatly from country to country and even from city to city. For example, sugar babies in New York earn much more than sugar babies in small towns. Still, the average monthly allowance is around $2,500-$3000. Sugar babies in big cities can earn $3,000-$4,000, while sugar babies in smaller cities are likely to make $1,500-$2,000 per month. The PPM rates range from $200 to $600+ per a date. Please note that the amount will depend not only on location but also on age, appearance, education, etc. More information on the prices on the sugar dating market can be found here.

Do Sugar Babies sleep with Sugar Daddies?

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Yes, the vast majority of them do, but there are exceptions. For example, if you ask 10 men on the best sugar daddy site if they're looking for physical intimacy, 10 are likely to say yes. But if you ask a hundred, there may be a few of them who're looking for online sugar baby or platonic relationships.

Note that physical intimacy in a sugar relationship must be discussed beforehand, and those who aren't looking for it should clearly indicate it in their profiles.

Can a sugar baby have a boyfriend?

Generally speaking, yes, they can, but it's a pretty complex question, actually—a lot of things must be considered. Not all sugar daddies will be okay with that. Hence, a sugar baby with a boyfriend will need to find a benefactor who won't be looking for an exclusive relationship. Most importantly, he will not expect a sugar baby to be in an exclusive relationship with him. After all, sugar dating is so popular because it's a relationship where people can be honest, and hiding something from your sugar daddy is not the best choice. He will find out—it's a matter of time.

You can look for a partner who won't care much about your other relationships on sites like Ashley Madison where most people are seeking affairs.

How old are Sugar Daddies and Sugar Babies?

Most sugar daddies are 45-60 years old, while most sugar babies are much younger—from 18 to 30 years old. There are younger sugar daddies and sugar babies, too. For example, you can meet a young 35-year-old developer looking for a sugar baby, as well as an attractive 35-year lady or a gentleman looking for a benefactor on one of the sugar dating sites. Still, in most cases, an age gap between a sugar baby and a sugar daddy is large enough, and it's a completely normal thing.

People are not prosecuted for sugar-baby relationships. The thing is, sex work is prosecuted in the US, while dating isn't, and as we've noted before, sugar dating is just another form of dating, that, however, is pretty similar to good old traditional relationships. Younger women are compensated for their time, it's true, but in this context, time refers not just to physical intimacy but also to their company, conversations, dates, romance, friendship, ability to listen to a partner, etc.

However, if a younger woman says she is a SB but meets them for one purpose of getting money in exchange for sex, she's just not an SB. If a couple meets, they like each other, have dinner, talk, and then have sex, and especially if they start a relationship then, it's a sugar dating. It's in a gray zone, and you can learn more about all the important legal aspects from this guide on legalities in sugar dating arrangements.

Sugar Baby scam alerts

Sugar daddies can get scammed when trying to find sugar babies, and sugar babies can also get scammed when trying to find a sugar daddy. Here are the most common types of scams that users usually face online:

  • Catfishing—a scammer who pretends to be an attractive woman/successful man usually to get your money
  • Payments in advance—a sugar daddy can be asked to make a payment online by following a weird link, and a sugar baby can get a fake payment and be asked to pay extra fees
  • Blackmailing after sending hot photos
  • Emergencies that happen to someone you've met only online—scammers can ask for help, financial, of course, trying to make you believe that something terrible has happened

These are just the most common types of scams, and both male and female sugar babies, sugar daddies, as well as sugar mommas should learn more about joining a sugar dating site to find a partner.

Final thoughts

There's a lot to learn about the sugar dating word before starting to explore it, but it's necessary if you want to succeed, find a good sugar partner and enjoy your relationship. It's crucially important to choose the right role, follow the rules of the game, and most importantly, always remember about the safety measures—in this case, you have a really good chance of getting a great sugar dating experience.

Bella Stewart
Bella Stewart
First registered on a Sugar Dating site when was 22. For the last 4 years, she experienced all the ups and downs in relationships with men. Today I coach men and women how to manage sugar relationships and get the lifestyle that matches their needs.
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