How To Become A Sugar Baby
Sugar Dating is a relatively new and pretty contradictory culture. There are hundreds of myths, stereotypes, and assumptions about sugar dating, babies and daddies, and the relationships they have. Still, people are very curious about it. And if you are reading this, you may think of becoming a sugar baby, too.
Here’s one thing that we’d like to emphasize. Sugar relationships may really be a good option for you. However, before you start looking for a sugar daddy, you should be 100% that you know what to expect from this relationship. We’re going to provide you with all the information you need to get a realistic perspective on sugar dating and tell you how to become a sugar baby and a part of this world.
In this guide, created especially for sugar babies, we’ll be completely honest with you, and we hope you will be completely honest with yourself when deciding if a sugar relationship is what you want and need.
How to become a sugar baby: the essentials each SB needs
First of all, sugar dating has nothing to do with straightforward sex-for-money transactions. The very word “dating” in this term refers to the things we usually mean by dating: the arrangement that involves chemistry, compatibility, and companionship. That’s why most researchers, dictionaries, and even daters themselves define sugar dating as a long-term relationship (relatively long-term, depends on daters themselves) that is somewhere in between regular dating and escort. After all, the fact that it involves affection, chemistry, and companionship means that it is still a type of dating.
Hence, a sugar baby is a female or a male who is financially cared for by a sugar daddy or sugar mama in exchange for companionship, including sexual favor.
As studies show, in such relationships, companionship is primary, and the economic transaction is secondary. This very fact helps many sugar babies get rid of hesitation related to the association of sugar dating with prostitution. Yes, money still plays a big role in determining if an arrangement is formed, as well as the conditions of this arrangement, but it’s not like just accepting the payment for the service.
The most important thing for a sugar baby: Realistic expectations
Please note that though sugar dating is not an escort, sugar babies should still be realistic about such relationships. Some sugar dating platforms depict men as perfect gentlemen who will do anything for you, care for you and pay for you without expecting anything in exchange.
In particular, they depict such perfect “princes” as the ones who wouldn’t expect sex before your 20th date and who would agree to pay for all those dates, as well as a sugar baby’s bills. Remember that these relationships are “mutually beneficial”, so a sugar daddy (who can really be kind, likable, and well-mannered, of course) will still expect you to give him the things he wants from his baby, from trust and fun to the physical.
Being a sugar baby: how to become a part of this world?
The easiest and the fastest way to become a sugar baby is to find a sugar daddy online. The safest way to do it is to choose a niche website with a large pool of sugar daddies. Here are some of our top picks for babies:
SeekingArrangement. This is the most known and probably the most popular sugar dating website (now it has 10 million members worldwide, and over 5 million members in the US). About 2 million members are sugar daddies/mommas. There is a strict verification procedure that allows getting rid of fake accounts. Daddies and mommas provide information on their income.
SugarDaddyMeet. This is another popular sugar website. It accepts sugar daddies only from the 20 countries to ensure that they can afford a sugar baby. Almost 8,000 users log in to the site daily.
AshleyMadison. This is a popular website (has millions of members worldwide, 15+ million members in the USA) designed for married/attached people who are still looking for a partner. The site works for sugar daddies/babies, too.
EmilyDates. EmilyDates is another platform that accepts men and women looking for sugar relationships. Currently, it has 30% of sugar daddies worldwide.
You may choose other websites if you want to, but we recommend checking their privacy policies (confidentiality is essential), finding out how many sugar daddies use it and how the site accepts them (some platforms may accept men who can’t afford a sugar baby, but still look for a hot lady to date).
Want to become a male sugar baby? It’s simple, too
Things work the same for male sugar babies. Just like female babies, they don’t jump straight into sex, and their sugar mommas or daddies support them financially, as well. More importantly, most leading platforms accept members looking for same-sex relationships as well as sugar boys looking for mommies. If you want to become a sugar boy, you can also join Seeking Arrangement, AshleyMadison, and SugarDaddy.com.
Reasons to become a sugar baby
As we have noted above, sugar babies are financially cared for by daddies. But what exactly does this mean? Do they pay bills or give high-end gifts? Or maybe both? Is there anything besides money that a sugar baby can get? Well, here are some benefits of being in a sugar relationship.
Money and/or gifts. As we have noted above, sponsorship is still an essential part of sugar dating. In fact, women choose this path for plenty of reasons. Some want to pay their student loans, some want a sugar daddy to pay the bills, and some look for luxury life and designer clothes. The thing is all of them can get what they want. After all, it is the part of the agreement, and a lady is one of the parties who define the conditions.
It’s your choice. People who don’t like the idea of sugar dating usually say that babies need to date “ugly” old men for money. It’s not true. Yes, most sugar daddies are older than babies (often, they are 45-55 years old), but you’d be surprised to find out how many good-looking men (married or not) look for a sugar baby. Moreover, you are the one who makes a choice. If you join a good platform, you will be able to search for a good match by plenty of filters, including height, weight, hair color, etc.
Mentorship. Sometimes, we all need a mentor — the one who will support us, help us, the one who always gives good advice. And again, sugar dating is not only about money, and not only about chemistry — for men, but it’s also a possibility to meet, date, hug, have dinners, and have sex with a beautiful woman, and for women, it’s a possibility to find a mentor who’d support her, as financially, as mentally.
Travels. That’s what a lot of sugar babies love most — many sugar daddies don’t go on vacation without their beautiful companions. For many college students and young girls, this is the only chance to see the world and enjoy all those trips with a man they respect.
What about the earnings? According to the statistics provided by SeekingArrangement, a sugar baby earns about $2,800 a month. This is the average sum, though, so you can earn more or less, so choose a sugar daddy carefully.
Things to know before being a sugar baby: Forewarned is forearmed
And again, sugar babies should have realistic expectations about such a relationship. Of course, sugar dating has its benefits, as well as drawbacks. However, the more you know about the danger, the better chance to protect yourself. That’s why we recommend taking a close look at the list below:
Beauty is not forever. Some researchers note that though babies have power over sugar daddies, it can “fade away with their looks”. Being sponsored may be addictive, and it’s not forever. That’s why it is crucially important to remind yourself that you need a plan B. Babies who keep this in mind, usually save, go to college, invest in something, etc. not to be fully dependent on sugar daddies. Living in the moment is fun, but you also need to think about tomorrow.
Not feeling good about yourself. It’s important to understand that sugar dating is not for everyone. Some girls and boys feel bad about themselves, and that means only one thing — they should live. There are a lot of happy babies who aren’t concerned about a daddy’s family or the fact that they are paid for dating. Still, there are people who shouldn’t do this just because of the bad consequences for their mental health.
Scam. A daddy who tells you he’ll pay after your 3rd date, delays payments, tells you that he’s a billionaire but takes you to the cheapest restaurant in your city is likely to be a “sugar fraud”. By the way, this is one of the reasons why we recommend joining the websites that check the information provided by members, in particular, the information on their income.
Jealousy is not okay. Sometimes, babies and daddies discuss and agree that a baby shouldn’t date anyone else. In this case, a daddy has the right to be mad about you going out with a guy. However, if monogamy was not discussed, and he is pathologically jealous, it is a bad sign.
Yes, things can go wrong no matter if you are a sugar baby or not. The secret is to be careful, understand who you are dating, be realistic, and think about tomorrow. If you are a rational person who understands that though sugar dating can give you the life you wouldn’t have otherwise, it still doesn’t mean that you can be careless or dream of Mr. Christian Grey, a billionaire who will fall in love with you forever, maybe, it’s an option for you.