Sugar dating is a popular type of relationship for open-minded people. In sugar dating, there are no burdens, no unrealistic expectations or dramas which are usually present in traditional relationships. Sugar babies share their attention, love and care with sugar daddies in exchange for financial support and other material benefits like gifts.
Sugar babies and sugar daddies feel happy in such a relationship because each of them gets what they want. However, some newbie sugar babies wonder: is it possible to date two or more sugar daddies at once? Or is it possible to have a traditional boyfriend while dating a sugar daddy?
So here’s the answer to your question on whether you can date someone else when dating a sugar daddy — yes, you can, but it depends.
Now, ask yourself this set of questions to find out whether in your particular case you can kill two (or more) birds with one stone.
1. Is your sugar daddy against you dating someone else?
Sugar daddies are usually rich influential men with strong egos. Not all of them might want to see their favorite sugar babies dating other sugar daddies (they may be less worried about traditional boyfriends though). If you hide the fact that you’re seeing other rich men your sugar daddy may break up with you. Moreover, this may affect your further future as a sugar baby.
So what should you do? Be honest, from the outset. Even before you start dating, ask the sugar daddy about his opinion — is he ok with you dating other wealthy guys? If yes, then the problem is solved. If not, well, you have to make a decision — date him while clandestinely seeing another man (which is very risky for you) or look for another sugar daddy.
2. Does your boyfriend know you are a sugar baby?
Here honesty is the key too. Dating a sugar daddy while being in a traditional relationship will be unveiled sooner or earlier. How will you explain to your boyfriend all the cash or gifts that you get from «nowhere»? You won’t be able to hide it for too long.
Tell your boyfriend about your preferences directly — if he genuinely loves you and wants you to be happy and do what you want, he will understand. In fact, your relationship may even get spiced up if you tell him you don’t mind an open relationship.
3. How do you feel about that?
For some girls, dating several men at a time — no matter who they are, sugar daddies or traditional partners — is an easy thing. They get attention and support from each of them. However, other girls are more monogamous.
So who are you? It’ all about your feelings and perceptions. If you want to date several sugar daddies at once and get benefits from them while sharing your care — then why not? We’re in the 21st century, after all!
All in all, listen to your heart and be honest with your partners, especially sugar daddies. The latter are different so talking to them in advance about your vision of sugar dating is crucial. Don’t miss that chance.