Back in the days when I started my Sugar Baby career, I had so many questions. I didn’t quite know how this whole thing called “sugar dating” worked, so I had to discover everything by myself. Today you have me, so I share my experience and solve the issues you might have.
So, sleeping is a tetchy subject. Not because it is something to be ashamed of, but just because at the very beginning you don’t quite know how to talk about it with other people.
To clarify the definitions, you need to see a few things actual for sugar daddies.
Talk about intimacy
Yes, a few men would agree to pay a girl their money just for her company. The big percent of sugar daddies do want their sugar baby to be as close to them as it is possible, even physically. Well, it is called a mutually beneficial relationship, right? So this is how they benefit.
Sugar daddies are usually very honest about their expectations, and so should be you. Think about what you are ready to give and state it as well as what you want to get for it. Honesty will lead to the better understanding.
Discuss the financial issue before the date to not have any confusion when you finally meet your sugar baby. First dates aren’t meant for sexual relations, but further meetings can be a surprise for you (in case you don’t follow this rule). Nobody really pays money to sugar babies on the first date. You can give her the allowance later, when both of you see that they really match.
For any further interaction to happen, you have to like each other. It is not about the feelings, but the appearance has to be attractive at least. You wouldn’t like to sleep with a sugar baby who is not attractive to you physically. So, you have to be pleasant to each other, otherwise, the whole dating thing loses its point.
Agree and disagree
Before you go even on the first date, make sure that both your sugar daddy and you, a sugar baby, have the same views and ideas about your relationship. Discuss the details, find the things you both agree on. To not have any troubles later on, touch even the most uncomfortable topics like sleeping. It will save your time if the woman is not for you. And it will keep you safe just in case, so you won’t be a victim of a scammer.
It is not prostitution
A lot of people mistake sugar dating for prostitution. However, these things are not the same. Here is the thing: sugar dating is, first of all, dating. It includes leisure time spent together, restaurants, trips, communication. So, both the man and sugar baby contribute to the relationship. Hence, you can’t call that just “sleeping for money”. Sugar babies do more, and sugar daddies ask for more too. After all, it is just no feelings there. And not every person needs feelings nowadays, so a mutually beneficial relationship works for many couples all around the world.